M- Marriage Vows #BlogchatterA2Z #AtoZChallenge #AtoZ

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Marriage is the binding of two hearts.

An Indian wedding not just binds the couple but unites two families that last forever. A wedding is a reason to rejoice, irrespective of region, caste or language. It is a boisterous occasion celebrated as a family with friends and relatives, filled with splendor, pomp, rituals, and tradition.

A typical Hindu marriage ceremony has seven promises that complete the divine union of two individuals. Also known as Sapthapadi (Saptha is 7 and Padi is Steps, so Sapthapadi is 7 steps) ) in the Hindu culture, the bride and groom vow to take these promises for a happy married life. The bride and the groom perform 7 rounds around a blazing fire while the Hindu priests chant the Vedic Mantras.

Step 1: In the first step, the groom promises to strive hard for the welfare of his wife and his family’s happiness. While the bride assures the groom that she will gratify all her responsibilities towards her family with utmost devotion and dedication.

Step 2: In the second step, the couple promise to stand together like a pillar and protect their family against all odds. The groom assures his bride that he will protect and fight for his family with courage and strength, while the bride promises to stand beside him and provide him power during his turbulent times.

Step 3: In the third step, the bride promises to accept the groom as her husband and that she will love him selflessly with all her heart, till eternity.

Step 4: In the fourth step, the couple vow to acquire happiness, harmony, and knowledge through mutual love. The groom prays to god to bestow him with good children with a great and long life. The wife, on the other hand, pray for happiness in the family.

Step 5: The groom accepts the bride as his best friend and makes her the companion of his life, whereas the bride generously accepts his friendship and promises to honor it with love and commitment. The fifth vow defines the marriage.

Step 6: In the sixth round, the bride and the groom promise to keep each other happy while spending the rest of their lives in matrimonial bliss and peace.

Step 7: The seventh step binds the two individuals into a holy bond. Both, the bride and groom promise to stay true to each other as their love and companionship have become inseparable for a lifetime.. They also pray for universal peace and social welfare.

The meaning of the seven steps is interpreted as – we have become friends and shall never separate. I am entering into your friendship. We shall love each other and support each other. We shall plan together our life. We will think alike and move together. Let us have only noble thoughts about each other. We will observe our duties together. I am the seed and you are its bearer. I am the mind and you are the words. We be faithful to us and may we be blessed with prosperity and progenies.”

We are following the seven vows till date, no matter we faced difficult times. Yes, we had faced ups and downs, our interests differ, we argue and fight, but at the end of the day we are Made for Each Other.

If alive, I would share my Nostalgia with my grandchildren too πŸ™‚

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Welcome to syncwithdeep! I am not a prolific blogger. My blog is 1 month old. I love memories and that was one of my reasons to come up with blogging. I don’t have a niche as I love to write about anything that appeals to me. This is my first year with #BlogchatterA2Z #ATOZChallenge and I have taken up the category woman themed at 40. In a couple of months, I am going to set my foot on the 40s, the descending hill. I am sharing my perspective how this transition is going to transform me in the nearing future. This is absolutely my Personal Experience. I would be glad if you spam me with your comments, whether you agree or disagree. That way, I can know how you welcome your 40s. Stay tuned with me every day to know how I am coping with my 40s.

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31 thoughts on “M- Marriage Vows #BlogchatterA2Z #AtoZChallenge #AtoZ

  1. Never knew the essence of the wedding vows even after being wedded. I took just one vow to honour our friendship always. But one should know about traditions associated with wedding vows and thanks for sharing those here.

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  2. Hindu marriages are all about rituals. If you happen to observe it closely then you will understand the significance of these rituals. They teach us the actual essence of a blissful marriage.

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  3. I was always curious to understand the significance of the ritual. The movies always offered a simplistic explanation that the Saptapadi merely symbolised a promise of Saat Janmon ka saath…your post showed me the meaning of each circle πŸ™‚

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  4. Thanks for this post, deepa and taking pains to explain the seven pheras so well. When my cousin got married I saw the couple taking onky 4 pheras. On asking came to know that when groom leads the phera, it’s counted as 2 and when the bride takes the lead, it is counted as a single phera. So instead of taking 7 pheras we take onky 4. I thought even during wedding, this laziness. Lol. But I am glad you take 7 full pheras in your community during wedding.

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  5. Yeah. Our marriage has lots of emotions and meanings behind everything the pandit says. Some take the vows without understanding. If people understand and take the vows, probably many divorces could be avoided.. Thanks for visiting Bhavna. Glad u liked πŸ˜ƒπŸ˜ƒ

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